Anal sex is becoming more and more acceptable, but many girls still have the mindset that nothing should go IN the OUT shoot. How do you possibly get a girl to let you near her ass with that type of mindset? It’s surprisingly simple believe it or not. Warning: The bigger your penis, the longer it will take to achieve this dirtiest of goals. So you guys with average or small penis’ can start jumping up and down now.

The trick to getting anal sex is by slowly SNEAKING some anal play into the bedroom. How do you touch her butt without getting kicked in the face? Be busy elsewhere as well. You are giving her oral, one hand and one tongue are extremely busy, and get her good and close to the edge. You have a free hand, look at that! Get it off of her tit and sneak it down to her naughty bits. Be sure she is close to orgasm, girls are up for almost anything when they have that ‘gonna cum’ feeling. With your index finger, touch her anus softly (be sure you keep working with the tongue and the other hand), and then begin with a circular motion around the rim of her anus. Continue this motion, she will not stop you, and from there let her orgasm.

She will ask you afterward what you were doing down there, but she will also add that she liked it. The rim of the anus is loaded with nerve endings and a little tickle down there at the right time will be welcomed with open legs. You should at some point mention that you read (or saw on TV) that anal sex is actually very clean. Tell her there are really no worries when it comes to running into poo. There are seven or so usable inches that are nice and tidy almost all of the time. The only time it is not empty in there, is when it is time to go to the washroom.

You can choose to move forward the next time you have sex, or you can repeat what you did last time to get her used to it. Your next move will involve some not so hardcore penetration. You will again apply some pleasure to her bottom at the right time, but this time when she is near orgasm, or during orgasm, a few little pokes will do. Do not go deeper than a half an inch or so. Be sure it is moist down there, by drool or by lube. Note: When it comes to finger pokes, I prefer to use my thumb. Not because it is bigger but because it is easier to control, especially when she is squirming during orgasm. Your fist stops her from sliding an entire un-welcomed finger into her ass. One bad anal experience could scare her away anything anal for life!

Basically from here, take your time and have good timing. Get deeper inch by inch, and when you are still getting away with it, give two fingers a shot. You have accomplished something if you have reached this point. Whether she was one of those girls who thought anal play was gross, or just one that thought it would not be comfortable, you have begun to prove her wrong.

Now that you have her comfortable with her bottom being manipulated, I suggest a little shopping. There are plenty of anal starter kits out there, or you can just make up your own starter kit by buying a small vibrator and a small butt plug(vibrating also if she wants). The butt plug is especially necessary. It has an upside down cone shape that allows for easy insertion, and once the widest part is inserted, you arrive at the stem. The plug can then be kept in during oral, and intercourse. Just having it inside gets her used to her bottom being stretched a little. The butt plug teaches her to relax the two muscles that need to be fully relaxed during anal sex.

In time this anal experimentation will without doubt lead to anal sex. There is just no getting around it. She is not sickened by the thought anymore, so it is all about working her up to something your size. This would be why I mentioned earlier that the bigger you are, the longer it takes. It is all about taking your time, and keeping her comfortable.

When you finally get to stick it in, be sure to lube up like you’ve never lubed up before. Saliva alone will probably not be enough your first time. Do not slam her silly or you will not get to return to this newfound happy place. I recommend the spoon position for your first time. It is a good angle for her, and it is also a very intimate position. You can move into those rougher positions later, but for now just keep every anal experience a good one. That’s about it, happy anal.

-Master How