Sex is not a race, but it should not drag out either. Obviously you should perform longer the more females there are in your bed so i will chop this up a bit.

One Partner

This could be your girlfriend, or it could be a one night stand, either way you do not want to let things get boring. I will not be breaking out any official time lines here, it is about the moment, but an average session should last around 25 to 30 minutes. Now if you are up for more, and she is obviously willing, do it up, but watch her eyes. If she looks at the clock, or turns on the TV, you are too late to save this session.

You should spend just as much time giving her oral sex, and you spend having sex with her. This is the first guideline you should think about following. Most girls do not receive enough oral from their partner, this is a fact. If you want her to beg for more, you’d better be sure she has a good time.

I recently heard of a study that stated many women actually prefer men with smaller penis’ because they spend more time giving oral sex. They do this because they think that their package alone is not enough to please her. Now, if you have an average or large penis a little effort will in turn make you a total stud in the sack.

I don’t recommend making her orgasm before you penetrate her, just give her a good warm up to keep her in need. Once your having sex you must keep her interested. (Note: The majority of girls don’t feel an awful lot from the actual penetration due to a lack of nerve endings within the vaginal canal.) An easy way to keep her good an stimulated is my rubbing her clitoris with a free hand, or even easier, by wearing a vibrating cock ring (good times are had by all with the ring).

After doing your thing for a while, get out of there and give her an orgasm, or utilize the vibrating cock ring and give her one while penetrating. If you choose the second method, see if you can orgasm at the same time as her. Ladies love simultaneous orgasming, as it shows you are the master of your peter. If you chose to finish her orally, do so, but do not penetrate her too much longer afterward. Try to wrap things up half quickly so she does not get fed up.

Some women orgasm extremely easily, and enjoy several orgasms per session. Obviously, with this kind of girl, you do not want to simply give her one and be done as it will probably not be as mind blowing an orgasm and the lady who only enjoys a single orgasm. Her orgasms take time, there is a build up, and later (with proper technique), an explosion. They’ll be ready for a pillow and a cup of tea when you are finished with them.

The Quicky

Qickies are quite different even though you are still with just one partner. Feel free to get off in as little as five minutes, and since your clothes are still primarily on, you shouldn’t really worry about giving her oral sex. Quickies are not so much about the sex, as they are about the rush that comes from having sex when and where you shouldn’t be. The quicker you get it over with the better, as you do not want to get caught with your pants down at your parents house. It is about the risk of getting caught, but actually getting caught would be a disaster.

Two Partners

In the past I have written, “a threesome is like a fine wine“, and this is so true. You are dealing with completely different circumstances here, and you must be ready to perform. If your threesome does not last at least an hour, I am going to consider it an unauthorized quicky. You’d better have you’re tongue performing as if it were an olympic athlete if you plan on getting mixed up in a threesome.

Again, you must be in the moment to determine when you should end things. Be certain they have orgasmed at least once a piece, and get it done before they start talking about shopping. The heat of the moment will only last so long for them. I don’t want to say they have short attention spans, but you must entertain them to the best of your abilities and finish things on a high.

Three or More Partners

Prepare for a long evening. Apply the methods I mention in my step by step guide. For the most part, evenly disperse the pleasure, and also find ways to get everyone involved at once. A session involving three partners should last around an hour and a half, and just keep adding a half an hour or so for each additional lucky lady.

-Master How