Anal sex is becoming more and more acceptable, but many girls still have the mindset that nothing should go IN the OUT shoot. How do you possibly get a girl to let you near her ass with that type of mindset? It’s surprisingly simple believe it or not. Warning: The bigger your penis, the longer it will take to achieve this dirtiest of goals. So you guys with average or small penis’ can start jumping up and down now.

The trick to getting anal sex is by slowly SNEAKING some anal play into the bedroom. How do you touch her butt without getting kicked in the face? Be busy elsewhere as well. You are giving her oral, one hand and one tongue are extremely busy, and get her good and close to the edge. You have a free hand, look at that! Get it off of her tit and sneak it down to her naughty bits. Be sure she is close to orgasm, girls are up for almost anything when they have that ‘gonna cum’ feeling. With your index finger, touch her anus softly (be sure you keep working with the tongue and the other hand), and then begin with a circular motion around the rim of her anus. Continue this motion, she will not stop you, and from there let her orgasm.

She will ask you afterward what you were doing down there, but she will also add that she liked it. The rim of the anus is loaded with nerve endings and a little tickle down there at the right time will be welcomed with open legs. You should at some point mention that you read (or saw on TV) that anal sex is actually very clean. Tell her there are really no worries when it comes to running into poo. There are seven or so usable inches that are nice and tidy almost all of the time. The only time it is not empty in there, is when it is time to go to the washroom.

You can choose to move forward the next time you have sex, or you can repeat what you did last time to get her used to it. Your next move will involve some not so hardcore penetration. You will again apply some pleasure to her bottom at the right time, but this time when she is near orgasm, or during orgasm, a few little pokes will do. Do not go deeper than a half an inch or so. Be sure it is moist down there, by drool or by lube. Note: When it comes to finger pokes, I prefer to use my thumb. Not because it is bigger but because it is easier to control, especially when she is squirming during orgasm. Your fist stops her from sliding an entire un-welcomed finger into her ass. One bad anal experience could scare her away anything anal for life!

Basically from here, take your time and have good timing. Get deeper inch by inch, and when you are still getting away with it, give two fingers a shot. You have accomplished something if you have reached this point. Whether she was one of those girls who thought anal play was gross, or just one that thought it would not be comfortable, you have begun to prove her wrong.

Now that you have her comfortable with her bottom being manipulated, I suggest a little shopping. There are plenty of anal starter kits out there, or you can just make up your own starter kit by buying a small vibrator and a small butt plug(vibrating also if she wants). The butt plug is especially necessary. It has an upside down cone shape that allows for easy insertion, and once the widest part is inserted, you arrive at the stem. The plug can then be kept in during oral, and intercourse. Just having it inside gets her used to her bottom being stretched a little. The butt plug teaches her to relax the two muscles that need to be fully relaxed during anal sex.

In time this anal experimentation will without doubt lead to anal sex. There is just no getting around it. She is not sickened by the thought anymore, so it is all about working her up to something your size. This would be why I mentioned earlier that the bigger you are, the longer it takes. It is all about taking your time, and keeping her comfortable.

When you finally get to stick it in, be sure to lube up like you’ve never lubed up before. Saliva alone will probably not be enough your first time. Do not slam her silly or you will not get to return to this newfound happy place. I recommend the spoon position for your first time. It is a good angle for her, and it is also a very intimate position. You can move into those rougher positions later, but for now just keep every anal experience a good one. That’s about it, happy anal.

-Master How

Sex is not a race, but it should not drag out either. Obviously you should perform longer the more females there are in your bed so i will chop this up a bit.

One Partner

This could be your girlfriend, or it could be a one night stand, either way you do not want to let things get boring. I will not be breaking out any official time lines here, it is about the moment, but an average session should last around 25 to 30 minutes. Now if you are up for more, and she is obviously willing, do it up, but watch her eyes. If she looks at the clock, or turns on the TV, you are too late to save this session.

You should spend just as much time giving her oral sex, and you spend having sex with her. This is the first guideline you should think about following. Most girls do not receive enough oral from their partner, this is a fact. If you want her to beg for more, you’d better be sure she has a good time.

I recently heard of a study that stated many women actually prefer men with smaller penis’ because they spend more time giving oral sex. They do this because they think that their package alone is not enough to please her. Now, if you have an average or large penis a little effort will in turn make you a total stud in the sack.

I don’t recommend making her orgasm before you penetrate her, just give her a good warm up to keep her in need. Once your having sex you must keep her interested. (Note: The majority of girls don’t feel an awful lot from the actual penetration due to a lack of nerve endings within the vaginal canal.) An easy way to keep her good an stimulated is my rubbing her clitoris with a free hand, or even easier, by wearing a vibrating cock ring (good times are had by all with the ring).

After doing your thing for a while, get out of there and give her an orgasm, or utilize the vibrating cock ring and give her one while penetrating. If you choose the second method, see if you can orgasm at the same time as her. Ladies love simultaneous orgasming, as it shows you are the master of your peter. If you chose to finish her orally, do so, but do not penetrate her too much longer afterward. Try to wrap things up half quickly so she does not get fed up.

Some women orgasm extremely easily, and enjoy several orgasms per session. Obviously, with this kind of girl, you do not want to simply give her one and be done as it will probably not be as mind blowing an orgasm and the lady who only enjoys a single orgasm. Her orgasms take time, there is a build up, and later (with proper technique), an explosion. They’ll be ready for a pillow and a cup of tea when you are finished with them.

The Quicky

Qickies are quite different even though you are still with just one partner. Feel free to get off in as little as five minutes, and since your clothes are still primarily on, you shouldn’t really worry about giving her oral sex. Quickies are not so much about the sex, as they are about the rush that comes from having sex when and where you shouldn’t be. The quicker you get it over with the better, as you do not want to get caught with your pants down at your parents house. It is about the risk of getting caught, but actually getting caught would be a disaster.

Two Partners

In the past I have written, “a threesome is like a fine wine“, and this is so true. You are dealing with completely different circumstances here, and you must be ready to perform. If your threesome does not last at least an hour, I am going to consider it an unauthorized quicky. You’d better have you’re tongue performing as if it were an olympic athlete if you plan on getting mixed up in a threesome.

Again, you must be in the moment to determine when you should end things. Be certain they have orgasmed at least once a piece, and get it done before they start talking about shopping. The heat of the moment will only last so long for them. I don’t want to say they have short attention spans, but you must entertain them to the best of your abilities and finish things on a high.

Three or More Partners

Prepare for a long evening. Apply the methods I mention in my step by step guide. For the most part, evenly disperse the pleasure, and also find ways to get everyone involved at once. A session involving three partners should last around an hour and a half, and just keep adding a half an hour or so for each additional lucky lady.

-Master How